Girls around the age of 9 enter a significant period in their lives because it is at this stage that they begin to experience puberty. Puberty can be a frightening experience for some because it brings lot physiological and physical challenges into one’s life.

Parents need to understand that there will be a lot of emotions involved and your child’s overall temper and regular mood can change. Instead of blaming your child, like some parents do, try to find a common language with her and understand how you can help her cope in this period.

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The best way to help your child adapt to new changes is to gift her playthings that will stimulate the development while enhancing her already learned skills. Numerous scientists and psychologists stress that game activities remain the best and safest way for children to figure out their puberty period.


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Creativity for Kids Grow N’ Glow Terrarium Science KitsCreativity for Kids Grow N’ Glow Terrarium Science Kits
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Enchantmints Ballerina Musical Jewelry BoxEnchantmints Ballerina Musical Jewelry Box
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Darice Deluxe Art Set, Art Supplies for DrawingDarice Deluxe Art Set
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Creativity For Kids Fashion Designer KitCreativity For Kids Fashion Designer Kit
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Spirograph Deluxe Design SetSpirograph Deluxe Design Set
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Alex Toys DIY Friends Forever Bracelet KitAlex Toys DIY Friends Forever Bracelet Kit
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Creativity for Kids The Spa Deluxe Gift SetCreativity for Kids The Spa Deluxe Gift Set
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Top 7 Best Toys & Gift Ideas Review in 2020

1. Creativity for Kids Grow N’ Glow Terrarium Science Kits

This Grow N’ Glow Terrarium by Creativity Kids offers your little girl a chance at planting and growing seeds into plants in a matter of several days. Once the terrarium is set up, your child would need to look after it regularly to make sure that the soil stays moist at all times.


This set includes the jar and the lid, sand, water mister, potting mix with stones and garden figures. If the terrarium is placed and kept in a cool place with lots of sunshine, the seeds will sprout within days.

The box contains enough seeds to grow for over 2 seasons; all your girl will need to do is make sure the seeds get enough water and sunlight. Various stickers come with the kit that can be used to design the terrarium to make it look much more appealing in the dark. Overall, this is one of the best botanical kits on the market that will surely spring an interest in botany and gardening in your child.

What We Liked
  • Great way to teach your girl about plants life cycle and the care they require
  • Kit adheres to strict US safety standards
  • Enough seeds for 2 planting seasons
  • Your child can grow a plant in just a few days
  • Everything is included except your child’s time, water and light
What We Didn't Like
  • Some parents have reported that the seeds were too dry to plant
  • The stickers can be very difficult to peel off from their sheets

2. Enchantmints Ballerina Musical Jewelry Box

A beautiful, musical jewelry box that comes with four drawers and intricate floral design that will suit any room decor. The jewelry box has one large drawer in the middle that can be used to store larger accessories such as bangles, chains, and necklaces.


The one in the back contains a padded section that can be used to store earrings and rings. Plus, there are two small drawers around the sides. Once the lid is opened, a pretty and small ballerina appears on stage in the middle. Once the key is turned, a sweet tune of Swan Lake starts playing and the ballerina begins to dance.

A clear and accurate mirror is located in the lid and every drawer is lined in the softest, velvet-like fabric so that precious jewelry does not get scratched. This musical jewelry box is part of the Enchantments Ballet Collection, so you can confidently go ahead and paired with other items from the collection.

Having an own jewelry box can help your daughter feel proud of her little collection and instill a sense of confidence and pride in having something of their own.

What We Liked
  • The illustration on the box are vibrant and very accurate
  • An intricate floral pattern adorns the pastel pink box
  • Enough drawers of 2 different sizes
  • Soft, Swan Lake tune plays when the lid is opened
  • Drawers are draped in velvet-like fabric
What We Didn't Like
  • Batteries would have to regularly be changed
  • Only one tune that cannot be turned off

3. Darice Deluxe Art Set

Nine-year-old girls usually have a lot of thoughts and stories that they like to note in their diaries. You could help her express her feelings and imagination by drawing pictures and other artwork.

This set could help her do just that. The Darice 120-pieces set contains different colored markers, crayons, pencils, and watercolor paints. The set will definitely run her imagination and creativity wild.

The set is designed in a light, black plastic case that easily shuts close and can be taken virtually anywhere. Moreover, in addition to basic drawing supplies, the kit contains oil pastels with 12 watercolor cakes and white color tube, a color mixing pallet, brushes, eraser, art sponge, sharpener and a pair of scissors.

The kit will make a great gift for girls that like drawing or painting on regular basis. However, it is not completely safe as the crayons and paints do contain chemicals that are rich in heavy metals and lead. In addition, the case is made from BPA rich plastic making it not very eco-friendly and biodegradable.

Furthermore, if your daughter is very artistic and enjoys painting for long periods of time then this kit might not exactly suit her as the colors are quite pale and the oil pastels are just unsharpened crayons.

What We Liked
  • Affordable
  • Contains all the necessary supplies
  • Travel-safe case
What We Didn't Like
  • Paint supplies such as the crayons and watercolors contain some toxic chemicals
  • Pencils were reported to be very poorly pigmented
  • Oil pastels are nothing but crayons that break if pressure is applied

4. Creativity For Kids Fashion Designer Kit

Most girls have an array of Barbie dolls and this kit will allow them to design their own costumes for their dolls. The kit can stimulate your 9-year-old daughter to create her own unique Barbie doll clothing that will represent her taste in fashion as well as display her sewing skills.

The kit contains over 50 essential pieces that include fabric swatches, ribbons, sketch pad, trims and various fabrics.

For first-time doll dress designers, the manufacturer has added clear instruction booklet that will guide your daughter in a step-by-step manner in creating bespoke little dresses.

To aid with right-sizing, the kit contains a lace-covered mannequin that can be used for dress fittings. Moreover, the kit also contains a measuring tape, scissors, pins, and a thimble.

Plus, there is a small booklet that talks about how designers go through the process of making a dress and it features some of the most popular dress designs that your daughter can take inspiration from.

It can help your daughter learn practical skills such as sketching and sewing while having lots of fun in the process alone or with her friends. The kit also includes threads and needles so it will be best if an adult will be present to watch over the process to ensure that no injuries occur.

What We Liked
  • The kit contains all the essentials such as needles, threads, thimble, fabric, and a mannequin
  • Teaches girls vital skills such as sketching and sewing
  • Stimulates imagination, fabric and color matching
  • Instills patience, planning and execution skills
What We Didn't Like
  • Girls can get hurt if sharp objects are not handled with care
  • The mannequin size is a bit bigger than a standard Barbie doll is

5. Spirograph Deluxe Design Set

The first Spirograph was invented in 1965 and ever since it has gone through various changes and upgrades. Kahootz has redesigned their Spirograph to include 12 wheels of different sizes and patterns, 1 rack, 2 rings, 3 pens of varying color and a clear instruction booklet that will walk your little girl through the process.

The set comes with a durable, clear carrying case so that your daughter can take the kit with her wherever she wishes. The redesigned kit includes new shapes such as hearts, teardrops, and stars paving the way for young artists to fully express their hidden creativity.

The set is packed in a beautiful and sturdy storage case that doubles as a neat organizer. Besides the 12 wheels and the 3 rings, the set contains 3 markers of varying colors and a 25-page drawing pad made from acid free paper.

What We Liked
  • 12 wheels enable children to create as many spiral designs as they wish
  • Brings out the hidden creativity in your child
  • Can be used to calm nervous children as the drawing process eases anxiety and anger
  • The kit can be used to create various card and stationery designs
  • Works well with ordinary ball pens
  • The designs can be filled in with colors to make them even prettier
What We Didn't Like
  • Designs get smeared by the rotating wheels if gel pens are used
  • Putty does not properly hold down the moving wheels
  • The carrying case was reported to crack after some time

6. Alex Toys DIY Friends Forever Bracelet Kit

Most girls around the age of 9 have friendship pacts with their classmates or friends outside of their school ring. To show their appreciation and how much they value that friendship they could gift their girlfriends matching bracelets or necklaces.


This Alex Toys DIY Friends Forever kit contains several colored looms, lots of different beads, a beading needle and a carrying case.  The DIY kit can be used to promote friendship values and stir up creativity between your daughter and her peers.

Moreover, the kit contains plenty of supplies to create a large number of bracelets thus allowing your girl to make an occasion out of the bracelet knitting day. Parents have reported the kit to encourage strong friendships and cooperative play. It can be used on birthday parties, garden get together and, of course, sleepovers.

What We Liked
  • Water and snow resistant
  • Built-in snow-cleats
  • Hook and loop closure for a secure fit
What We Didn't Like
  • Does not offer a variety of colors

7. Creativity for Kids The Spa Deluxe Gift Set

This Spa Deluxe Kit allows young girls to experience their very own spa treatments in the comfort of their home. The kit contains an inflatable pedicure pool that can be used to treat little feet.

Plus, the toe separators, colorful slippers, and battery run nail dryer will make the spa day the best experience they have yet had.

In addition, the kit comes with glitter polish nails, press on acrylic nails, and various other pedicure tools. The satin mask can be used to make your 9 year old daughter feel like her mom on a day in the spa.

Psychologists recommend such kits as they tend to encourage role-playing that helps imaginative thinking run wild. Moreover, this can be very beneficial for the cognitive and creative thinking development in 9 years old girls.

What We Liked
  • The glitter nail polish is kids safe as it is entirely water-based
  • Lots of sticker nail art
  • Nail file and nail buffer are made from soft materials that will not damage your child’s toenails
  • Nail polish is odor-free as it is water based
What We Didn't Like
  • Fake nails look like they are sized for an adult
  • Some girls might get frustrated with the acetone-free nail polish as it tends to easily peel off
  • Once the stick on nails are peeled from the ring they are attached to, a small stem is left behind making the nails look funny
  • Fake nails don’t stay on for too long

Gifts That Will Encourage Your Daughter to Learn

Nowadays, there are plenty of toys that promise to encourage young children to learn and develop while holding their attention longer than the usual 5 minutes. The gifts we have chosen to feature today will aid your girls in developing their cognitive skills through fun play with their peers.

We have mentioned the word “play” a few times already and you are very likely to meet this word again below because we could not possibly stress enough that play is critical in child’s development process.

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Play is very important because it stimulates imagination, motor and physical skills if adults provide adequate and clear instructions to follow.

Final Thoughts

Girls around the age of 9 might ask for material things instead of toys for a gift. This is understandable; most children this age look to their peers for comparisons. And your daughter might ask for that new bag that her friend got for Christmas or that new iPad that her classmate received for good grades in school.

But, psychologists strongly recommend buying material things only when they are truly required and never on special holidays. The explanation is fairly simple. We live in a difficult world where economic situation changes regularly and parents can find themselves struggling financially at some point of their child’s live.

By gifting regularly material things, children will subconsciously expect expensive gifts for the next holiday. Essentially you will be setting them up for negative feelings when the next holiday comes round and they will not be gifted what they desired or asked for. 

However, by gifting useful toys that will positively impact their development or help them gain a new skill you are setting them up on a path of appreciating the more expensive presents that they might receive. Useful and beneficial toys don’t have to be boring, today you can find endless options of toys that your girl will love to receive.

This list contains few of gifts that can be used to bond with new classmates or friends. For example, the bracelet making kit helped my 9 year old daughter bond with her new music school classmates during the sleepover party that we had.

They had plenty of fun and were busy knitting till the late hours of the night. On another occasion, when my daughter was asking for a kitten, my husband and I gifted her ‘glow in the dark’ terrarium to make her realize that taking care of things is not very easy.